If the formula is true as many proclaim, Thought plus Emotion = Attraction, then introverts and their contemplative nature might easily be able to attract and manifest what they want in their life. Why? Because of the introvert's natural contemplative nature! We are always inside our heads. Swami Vivekananda's words might also give us encouragement to consider how powerful those thoughts we have are: "There is no help for you outside of yourself; you are the creator of the universe. Like the silkworm you have built a cocoon around yourself ... Burst your own cocoon and come out as the beautiful butterfly, as the free soul."

Thoughts: The downfall of being able to create just as we want as I see it, is our lack of wavering personal acceptance of who we are and often wishing-thinking-hoping-praying we were an extrovert. That in itself is enough to set abundance in a trajectory away from us. If to begin with your thoughts get in the way of acceptance, just what is that accepting? It's not. It's creating a negative vibration. And there are an abundance of negative introvert beliefs that can keep us stuck there in the sludge. Let's use one I am often accused of: anti-social. First I know I am not anti-social. I like people but I like my alone time better. I know that about myself. When I am in a situation that someone might incorrectly judge me that way, it's an acceptance on my part that this may occur because I didn't prepare myself with enough solitary time to be ready. I know I do enjoy limited social time. So which negative myth are you ready to change your thinking about?

Emotion: One of the emotions likely most introverts can conjure up is one of fear brought on by the feeling around some extroverting events that we somehow believe must be carried on in true extrovert fashion. Let's take networking for example. Imagine we all agree that networking is a productive way of finding your dream job, finding the best prospects for clients or joint ventures or finding a resource you want. I have a neighbor who's an all out extrovert. She's told me she gets so excited when she has a party in her home that she can get carried away with the guest list. Knowing this about her, and knowing I'm an introvert who can be wrongly accused of being anti-social in large groups, I want to know and usually ask her, "How many people are you expecting?" Regardless of the number she tells me, I plan accordingly with my before and after activities so that I can be emotionally positive when I arrive and as I mingle.

Attraction: Let's put the two together: the inner thought is "I enjoy limited social time," and "I happily prepare for socializing in large groups." At a bare minimum think and feel what goes with, "I intend to enjoy the degree of socializing that makes me happy even when in large groups." Your feeling moves toward the positive and your actions match up. You find yourself behaving appropriately for your own energy levels and you are ready for the extroverting activity in a positive way. Even when present at an event, you'll find you'll be socializing because you are now attracting to you abundantly, all around, to be in this example, social.

We are after all, introverts. So you want more in 2010? More of what ever it is, is your choice to contemplate the formula and put in place the abundance of what might free your soul - Thought plus Emotion = Attraction.

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